seikosha beat me to it. This all sounds familiar.
I wish I had a good lab grade accelerometer so I could test damping materials and platforms. I grew up with the theory that you drain the vibrations down to the floor, so it was weird for me to see everyone using maple platforms and brass/sorbithane/magic to absorb/damp vibrations.
Since I don't have fancy testing equipment, I'll just have to use my ears and do some experimenting.
I'm currently working on a 4' tall gear rack that's heavy extruded aluminum legs that will probably be sand filled once I get it into place. And I'm experimenting with different shelf materials. I've already got a 2" maple deck, and a plywood/mdf deck, and I'm working on cutting out a plywood/MDF deck that's lead pellet filled, and one final deck that will be a sand box with plywood or MDF "floating" in the sand. I figure I'll move the amp around till I figure out which deck sounds best, then do the same for my DirectStream, then the PC. If one material sounds best, I'll rebuild the whole rack using just that type of deck.

If anyone has any idea how I can actually measure the vibrations/damping, I'd love to hear about it!