I know Match, I get the same reaction from my brother and others, when they breach my Listening Room.
Yet, they will spend 30k+ on a Boat, they only use for 26 hours cumulatively....in July and August (and make payments all Winter).
Makes them think? I tell um', I hear and feel the tone and timbre of my Music....so I need my ZMA and associated Gear. It is a curse, I know. But, one I enjoy, like that Boat you enjoy.
But, one big difference: I enjoy my hobby for 700+ hours a year vs. your 26 hours of fun time on your boat?!
Oh, and my 17k System is paid for. I like my return on investment pleasure.....better than yours!