I miss ProgRob. :/
We need more CDAPS members.
Most of what I've learned, I get from Steve and Bob.
When I wanted my first tube amp and went to listen to Steve's setup at his old house, I learned what 1watt could do, what diffusers could do, that high quality audio doesn't have to have high end pricing, and that DIY can do as well if not better than store bought high end gear.
Then in spending time with him, I learned to *trust myself*. Trust my ears, trust my gut, trust my first impressions, trust my subconscious body language . This was huge for me. I doubted that I could really hear like those "golden ear builders and reviewers", and in fact I found that *really* hearing is just trusting yourself (and double checking with another impartial listener LOL).
Palomino has been a big part of my growth in the past few years as well. I feel we trust each other's thoughts, theories, opinions, and work. When we met ProggRob, he was developing his system in a vacuum; he didn't have the trusted feedback that's helped Tom and I develop our systems, improve our listening skills, and grow our music collections (LOL). I was so impressed with what Rob had done on his own, and after some thoughts from myself and Tom, his work on his system took it to a whole nother level.
From Bob I've learned precision, the beautify of simplicity in builds, and it's good to chase those "what if I tried...." I can't say how much all of that has made me slow down, enjoy my work, an accept my mistakes as something to learn from.
Then there's all you bastards here in the forum that make me spend money on cool tubes, cables, and feets and stuffs.

Seriously though, we have some of the smartest guys (not in the business - regular joe listeners) poking their heads here in this forum, and I love that we don't get into bickering and drama like so many other forums. I think it's wonderful that we have such diverse opinions and at the end of the day it's "cool - you enjoy your thing and I'll enjoy mine".
Overall, I have to say that Steve, with all his talent and mad scientist skills couldn't have developed as far as he has without listeners, as we listeners couldn't have developed as audiophiles and music lovers as much as we have without sharing with each other.
Yeah, I think we need more get-togethers....