Hi Digger,
I have a simple Technics Turntable setup and have some rudimentary knowledge in this area.
For your brother-in-law's case, the output from the turntable is too low.
Hence a turntable preamp, nowadays, is always required.
Normally, MM cartridges require less preamping than MC cartridges.
For your other question, audiophiles are usually more concerned about upgrading the internal Tonearm wiring than the external interconnects.
Any decent IC should suffice.
The usual rules about keeping ICs as short as possible also applies too.
There is a very steep learning curve for Turntables.
The following Turntable online forum might be of use to you.
http://www.vinylengine.com/turntable_forum/index.phpGood Luck!