Dan, your individual tube/socket test did the trick!
When I got to the 2nd output tube on the low output amp, that's where I found the low cathode voltage, where the 1st tube/socket read ok...so I inspected the components attached to the socket and Boing! I see one leg of the 330k resistor just floating in space!! It was hiding kinda underneath one of the big honking 3.3uF Solen caps (this amp is the "PTP" version of the zen, wired to terminal strips around the tube sockets).
My guess is that when I wired up my (failed) standby switch, I ran the ground wire from the switch to the ground post on the terminal strip that the 330k resistor is also attached to, and in the process of soldering on the ground wire, the 330k popped free!
SO anyway, I reconnected the resistor, loaded all the tubes back in and now my voltages are very well matched b/w the 2 amps! They're a tad high still (TPA ~362, TPB ~322) but consistent...AND NOW the volume is matched and sounds great!!

Dan, thanks again for the debug tip!
-Matt