OK, So let's talk about stands...
My first experience with the horrifying effect of ruining the sound of a speaker with a stand came in the early 1990's with a pair of PSB Alpha bookshelf speakers that I had on some weird triangular columns that I stood up on a board and set the Alphas on top of. These hollow columns were part of some retail display from a store that I scarfed up along the way. Setting them on a flat board floating on the carpet decoupled from the floor and the speakers directly coupled to the top of the hollow triangular columns -- the sound was glorious. I enjoyed it for many months, but the stands were easily tipped. They were a balancing act and even my cat could launch one into the wall.
So one day I grew a pair and purchased some hi-end steel stands that I filled with lead shot and spiked to the floor and spiked to the speakers...
Yea, that was probably it right there. Anyway, I turned on the stereo and the magic sound I had grown to love was completely gone. I had this hatefully dry, etched, tipped up sound that had almost no bass and no imaging. I was so stunned I didn't know how to process it frankly.
The stands were quickly donated to friends that weren't really friends.
Fast forward 30+ years to today and in wanting to see how these things looked before the rest of the parts arrived, I had to use make shift spikes and cones to see what the final look would be close to.
I had the stands firmly spiked to floor through the carpet, and the speaker spikes installed resting in magnesium disks that were hard coupled to the top of the stand - a way to get coupling without scratching the wood.
I turned it on and the magic sound of Tube Tots was completely COMPLETELY C O M P L E T E L Y
gone.
The sound stage went from 16 feet wide to 5 feet at best. The highs were shot. The midrange was totally f'cked. Bass was well I don't really know because I was so distracted by everything else that was broken.
See, these speakers are presently set on the inside of the 3-way house speakers so they are only 5 feet apart. Despite this odd placement, they have a sound stage that is literally 16 feet wide. It sounds like the speakers are placed well outside the 3-ways. Suddenly spiking the speaker to the stand which is spiked to the floor which is concrete slab on dirt... made them sound like a boom box with a sound stage that was 5 feet wide.
I'm not kidding.
So the solution to get the sound back is to remove the spikes from the bottom of the Tube Tots and set the speakers on rubber 0-rings with the following specs: Hardness 70 SHORE A (NBR 70) AS568 (#-210) 1/8x3/4
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This TINY little change restored the full glory of the Tube Tot sound and image and stage. Literally. The original stands that cost $60 on Amazon made from glass and thin aluminum were in fact perfect as well because they had shallow rubber pads between the speaker and the stand. These are at least as good if not better in sound but several notches better in looks I hope. I can already hear the way they punch music into the room has gotten better. Immediacy.
Steve