Thank you for the replies. I spent a few hours today with my brother doing a full frequency response of the room and my current speakers. The amp isn't the problem, the speakers and the room are the culprit (obviously). I just didnt realize how bad it was in the new room/new house.
I turned off the treble control circuit so we were measuring the pure signal of the Mark Audio drivers in their cabinets.
Below is the averaged (18 measurement) frequency response.

As you can see, there is a 51 Hz huge bump. Drivers don't go much lower then 50 Hz.
Then there is a huge drop off, but lets say we cannot trust anything below 200 Hz...
From 200 Hz to 1 kHz there is essentially no midrange. This explains my problem about having way too much shout. I am turning the amp too loud to begin to hear the mids, but the drivers are producing highs that are very uncomfortable to listen to.
... So that leaves me with a speaker selection choice. Considering the room challenges I feel like the ERRx or HR-1 might make sense.
Hard for me to buy a speaker un-heard, especially the HR-1s. I know they will be amazing, but that is a lot to drop without hearing them. Wish I was closer to IL for Decfest.
The reason I am still looking at the Torii Jr is to open up some more options when it comes to speaker selections (like the Ohm Walsh 1000s)...
Hopefully this was as interesting to everyone as it was to me!
Ciao,
Ron Valente