Well, I've been meaning to get back to my promised post for a while but kept forgetting, sorry RJR. I'm sure you were waiting with bated breath at what I'm about too say...

When I first read your post I missed your sarcasm; it was late and I processed that you thought it was, indeed, average. Now that I see that isn't the case it changes my response slightly, but only to admit that when I first started building my system based on online reviews, I felt it was average! If you haven't felt that way, bravo!
My experience was, sadly, a revolving door of boxes and cables to finally attain that synergy. And, due to a character flaw (or whatever), even when I had attained something special it took confirmation from two regulars here to push me into the "satisfied" part of the audiophile spectrum. Maybe I'm just hard to please? I know how hard it is to put a system together without having heard a thing prior to purchase, but even still, I'm not convinced that even if you had heard something at a dealer that it will translate in your room, with your equipment, your power quality, etc. I think it was in Jim Smith's book "Get Better Sound" where he described an individual that heard Jim's system in Jim's home, and was so enthralled that this person set about purchasing the exact system for himself. When he got it home, it sounded nothing like what he had previously heard. When I first read that several years ago I didn't understand. Now? Yeah that sounds right.
I was writing to my uncle not long ago, and told him that he was primarily responsible for my hobby, then proceeded to explain, at his request, every link in the chain, where I got it, why I picked it, yada, yada, yada... he responded "wow, how on earth did you ever put a system like that together on your own?!?". He grew up with an audio dealer, prior to all these forums and direct-to-consumer companies and was completely flabbergasted how I could pull this off, and he hasn't even heard it! Bottom line, I'm sure he and Ray Seda (author of your article link above) have something in common: the paradigm has shifted and many don't understand how it can be done. Well, it can!