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Hey Safebelayer,
When you said you "100% agreed" with Spyder1's snarky comments, that got me thinking you agreed in general with him. Your more personal explanations I got too, but the theme appeared pretty close... Sorry if I got that wrong. It did get a little weird for me when you both had instructions for how you want me to be different than I am in my writing, presumably since you are not interested, or are unwilling to use your time to try to learn from my stories as I tell them. That is just fine with me if you are not up for reading my posts, but that you are advising me how I should think/post I find a little bizarre.
I am also sorry it is difficult to hold attention and interest enough to read my admittedly long running posts. But as you know, it is hard to get into the deeper stuff that can help create a more enjoyable musical experience without meaningful context. Sure we can pass around quick opinions posing as "facts" but do you ever learn much from them??? And like I alluded to earlier, I do this deeper posting in part because I had to struggle so much in the past, and made loads of mistakes in starting to find my own musical path... a big reason for this being that many posts generally did not go much past the surface back then.
If we really want to get good sound, clearly it takes deepening knowledge and experimentation. Otherwise, without a lot of luck, with fastlane cursory involvement, we will still be buying loads of tubes, cables, wires, front ends.... more or less staying full blown players on the perpetual audio merry go round. Since this is not my thing... other than the occasional tube, wire, or parts needed to take experiments deeper, it often takes months, or even years for me to buy something new. I just keep making what I have better instead, and learn a lot from this which you really can't learn in many other ways. So just hoping to help others figure out their own paths with less mistakes, based in real experience and real theory, and hoping to support more enjoyable musical experiences.
I get it though... in this world of texts, facebook, and hyper anxiety, including hyper time anxiety, thoughtful discussion is more and more often shunned. Being a bit of a throwback myself, I do find this conceptually defeating, that a post that might take 15 minutes or so to read is too long to settle down enough to try to learn from.... especially if it might present real potential for enhancing the music! But that is of course me.
I guess (hope) I will always reject cultured anxieties that tend to keep people hyper-reactive and unable to "take the time" to learn and grow more optimally, and in turn, to do more optimal work with less mistakes. Tricky times for sure, but to me that makes it all the more important to try to solve.
And my final apology, these posts take a lot of energy and thought to put together, and though I will keep your thoughts in mind, I am not inclined to go to more work than I already do on my posts in order to provide you with a summary.
Thanks Joman,
And I am sorry to hear we may be losing you, but I get it.... I guess you noticed you are not seeing a lot of Lon and I these days either... as well as a number of other thoughtful posters who are becoming more absent...
I too am sorry to see this forum that once stood above many others in terms of respect and passing realer information, degenerate with the influences of glib/anger/hatred/fear patterns promoted in culture by so many these days. I have been reluctantly coming around lately if I felt like I could contribute something meaningful, but, fewer and farther between for me. I almost quit a number of times so far over the last year or so, but I learned a lot from this forum and I guess I still feel a little more reciprocation is a good idea with hope it may grow healthier again.
But when getting on the forum is a bummer too much of the time, eventually, I can imagine myself growing totally over it. Over time, as you are aware, many of us have tried to "fight" sort of typical forum degeneration with relative respect and care for one another, while nurturing the forum's support of making audio better! But this has become harder and harder to hang with and I am sorry to hear that you too seem close to giving it up. As we all can see, the vibe of a healthy forum is innately fragile with so many people involved, and without respect for the cause of audio and each other, I guess there is likely little real hope for healthy forum survival.
So take care John and please keep up the deeper music study you are always in!
Will
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